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FETISH
101
TERMS
& DEFINITIONS FROM THE FETISH LIFESTYLE
FETISH: Excessive sexual focus on an
object of fixation.
TYPES OF FETISHES
| Acrotomophilia | The person is sexually aroused by the sight
of an amputation usually of a whole arm or leg.
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| Adolescentilism | The person is aroused by impersonating both
the dress and behavior of an adolescent.
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| Andromimetophilia | A woman who is sexually aroused by
impersonating a man. They purposefully look like and act like a man.
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| Apotemnophilia | This person is sexually aroused by having a
part of their body amputated either by themselves or someone else. The memory
of the amputation can serve to arouse them for years. It is the act of having an
extremity amputated that is arousing; thus, they have to be awake during the
process.
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| Asphyxiophilia | This is sexual arousal caused by loss of
control over your ability to breathe. Self strangulation or allowing another
person to asphyxiate you.
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| Autagonistophilia | Unlike exhibitionism where the person
intentionally exposes their genitals to an unsuspecting stranger, in this
paraphilia the person creates situations in which other people could see them
in the nude if the person wanted to. For example, it would be like leaving your
curtains open and walking around the house naked in hopes that someone would
peep in the windows. It is the thought that someone may be watching that is
sexually arousing.
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| Autonepiophilia | This is the same thing as infantilism. |
| Biastophilia | In this paraphilia the person is sexually
aroused by the idea of being raped. This is scripted and planned out ahead of
time with a partner. The person does not actually want to be raped by a
strange.
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| Catheterophila | The person is sexually aroused by the
insertion of a catheter.
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| Chrematistophilia | This person can only become sexually
aroused if they are being blackmailed into it.
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| Formicophilia | Sexual arousal is caused by having insects
crawl on their genitals.
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| Gerontophilia | The person is only sexually aroused by a
significantly older person. There has to be at least a 15 year difference
between their ages.
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| Gynemimetophilia | A person who is sexually aroused by a
female impersonator.
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| Hybristophilia | Sexual relations with a convicted
criminal.
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| Hyphephilia | Touching or rubbing a human or non human
object is essential for achieving sexual arousal.
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| Hypoxphilia | The same as asphyxiophilia. |
| Infantilism | Dressing as an infant and acting the role
of a child under two years old is sexually arousing. This can including some
or all body hair and the hiring of a nurse or nanny to take care of you.
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| Kleptophilia | Similar to kleptomania, kleptophilia
results in sexual arousal from stealing not just thrill seeking.
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| Klismaphilia | Getting an enema is sexually arousing. More
liquid is associated with greater pleasure.
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| Mixophilia | The person likes to watch their partner or
themselves engage in sexual activity. Usually this means watching themselves
in a mirror.
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| Morphophilia | Peculiar body shapes and sizes are sexually
arousing such as heavy, short, dwarfism, etc.
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| Mysophilia | The person is sexually aroused by dirt,
mud, or filth.
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| Narratophilia | Telling dirty stories is sexually
arousing.
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| Olfactophilia | The person is sexually aroused by body
smells. Usually inserting finger anus, vagina, etc. and smelling it during
sex.
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| Pictohilia | Watching X-rated films is sexually
arousing.
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| Raptophilia | Same as biastophilia. |
| Scoptophilia | Same as mixophilia. |
| Somnophilia | The person can only maintain sexual arousal
while having sex with someone who is sleeping. If the person wakes up they
loose interest.
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| Stigmatophilia | Body piercing and tattooing but not ear
piercing is sexually arousing.
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| Symphorphilia | Natural disasters are sexually arousing. |
| Telephonicophilia | Talking dirty on the phone or being talked
to lewdly.
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| Urophilia | Being urinated on or urinating on someone.
Golden showers
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| Zoophilia | The person wants to be treated like an
animal wearing a collar and even eating out of an animals dish. This is
different from bestiality in which the person wants to have sex with an
animal. |
BDSM TERMS & DEFINITIONS
| AGE PLAY | Role-playing the persona of someone
substantially younger (or sometimes older) than your actual
age.
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| BONDAGE | Physical materials applied to a
submissive or slave to restrain their ability to move and/or to otherwise
restrict them. Also, the act of placing the submissive or slave in such
materials.
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| BOTTOM | A slang term for a submissive and/or
masochist. Many people use the word “bottom” to mean specifically
someone who enjoys being given various sensations, as opposed to a
“submissive”, who enjoys being controlled.
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| BOTTOM
SPACE
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The psychological “head space” or
attitude of being submissive.
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| BOY | A submissive (often, but not always,
male) who relates to their dominant in a child-to parent mode. More common
among gay men and lesbians.
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| BRAT | A submissive who enjoys rebelling in
a childlike way against their dominant. Brats are fairly common in the
spanking scene.
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| CONSENSUAL | An activity done with the consent of
adults competent to give that consent. One of the central features of SM
play..
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| COUNTING GAMES | Rituals engaged in during whipping,
flogging, spanking , or during other forms of flagellation, in which the
submissive (or slave) is required to keep count f the number of strokes
delivered, often thanking the Master after each one and asking for more.
Example: “Thats five, Sir. Thank you Sir, Sir, please may I have
another, Sir?”
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| DADDY | A dominant (usally, but not always,
male) who has a submissive “boy” and who relates to that submissive
in a parent/child mode. More common among gay men and lesbians, but gaining
currency among heterosexuals and bisexuals as well.
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| DISCIPLINE | Training by a Master in how they
wish their submissive or slave to behave. Also, the punishment and correction
administered by the Master when the submissive fails to act in the proper
manner.
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| DOMINANT | One who enjoys assuming control. One
who decidees what happens and when. A dominant may or may not be
sadistic.
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| FLAGELLATION | The general act of one person
striking another, usually in an erotic context. Includes spanking, paddling,
flogging and whipping.
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| FLOGGER | A multi-tailed whip in which the
tails are long, flat strips of leather or a similarly flexible
material.
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| HUMILIATION | Activities which
cause the submissive to feel shame, embarrassment, or degradation. Varies
widely from person to person. Possibly psychologically explosive..
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| MASTER | A term for a male dominant. Often
used as a term of address, such as “Master Tom”. It is often
considered somewhat rude to address a man by this term without being first given permission to do
so.
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| MASTER-slave RELATIONSHIP |
An ongoing SM relationship in which
the slave is submissive to a male dominant.
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| MONDAY MORNING REBOUND SYNDROME |
Feelings of remorse, disgust, fear,
and so forth that sometimes emerge hours or days after a person willingly,
and often lustily, takes part in SM play.
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| MUMMIFICATION | Immobilizing bondage, usally done by
wrapping the submissive in many coils of materials such as plastic wrap, or
by placing the submissive in a body bag designed for this
purpose.
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| NOVICE | A person just beginning to learn
about and explore SM. Often treated with special kindness and attention by
the more experienced members of the community or by the MASTER.
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| SADIST | As loosely defined with the SM
Community, a person who specifically enjoys administering pain. A person may
be dominant without being sadistic. It’s also possible to be sadistic without
being dominant.
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| SADOMASOCHISM | A rather vague term referring
generally to fantasies and experiences regarding the introduction of
domination, submission, bondage, sadism, masochism, humiliation, and related activities
into erotic play.
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| SAFEWORD | A specific word or other signal
used, by prior agreement, to indicate that things are “really”
becoming too intense for the person. Usally used by the submissive or slave, but may also
be used by the dominant. “Safeword” itself is sometimes used at SM
parties to signal a desire for outside intervention.
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| SLAVE | A person who has an on-going,
structured relationship with a dominant or Master. One who assumes the
submissive role, often in a highly developed and committed way to a
particular person. Cling someone “my slave” generally indicates a relatively
sophisticated, ongoing relationship between the two of you.
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| SUBMISSIVE | One who yields control. One who
obeys orders adn may permit themselves to be bound if doing so pleases their
dominant or Master.xt
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| TOP’S DISEASE | An unwarranted attitude of
superiority taken by a domiant. Believing that bottoms are somehow inferior
and treating them so in either obvious or subtle ways. Usually a sign of
insecurity or ignorance. Dominants who suffer from Top’s Disease often (surprise,
surprise) complain about how hard it is to find people willing to play with them. a
mirror image of this syndrome is called Bottom’s Disease.
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| TWO SQUEEZES | A “squeeze signal” between players
used to non-verbally signal that, “I’m all right.”
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| WORSHIP | To adore the personage of the
dominant. Often combined with performing some service to the dominant’s body
such as massaging, kissing, or licking their feet or boots, massaging their
body, bathing them. Explicitly sexual activity, such as performing oral sex
on the dominant, may or may not be a part of such play.
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