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FETISH
101

TERMS
& DEFINITIONS FROM THE FETISH LIFESTYLE

FETISH: Excessive sexual focus on an

object of fixation.

TYPES OF FETISHES

Acrotomophilia The person is sexually aroused by the sight

of an amputation usually of a whole arm or leg.
Adolescentilism The person is aroused by impersonating both

the dress and behavior of an adolescent.
Andromimetophilia A woman who is sexually aroused by

impersonating a man. They purposefully look like and act like a man.
Apotemnophilia This person is sexually aroused by having a

part of their body amputated either by themselves or someone else. The memory
of
the amputation can serve to arouse them for years. It is the act of having an
extremity amputated that is arousing; thus, they have to be awake during the
process.
Asphyxiophilia This is sexual arousal caused by loss of

control over your ability to breathe. Self strangulation or allowing another
person to asphyxiate you.
Autagonistophilia Unlike exhibitionism where the person

intentionally exposes their genitals to an unsuspecting stranger, in this
paraphilia the person creates situations in which other people could see them
in
the nude if the person wanted to. For example, it would be like leaving your
curtains open and walking around the house naked in hopes that someone would
peep in the windows. It is the thought that someone may be watching that is
sexually arousing.
Autonepiophilia This is the same thing as infantilism.
Biastophilia In this paraphilia the person is sexually

aroused by the idea of being raped. This is scripted and planned out ahead of
time with a partner. The person does not actually want to be raped by a
strange.
Catheterophila The person is sexually aroused by the

insertion of a catheter.
Chrematistophilia This person can only become sexually

aroused if they are being blackmailed into it.
Formicophilia Sexual arousal is caused by having insects

crawl on their genitals.
Gerontophilia The person is only sexually aroused by a

significantly older person. There has to be at least a 15 year difference
between their ages.
Gynemimetophilia A person who is sexually aroused by a

female impersonator.
Hybristophilia Sexual relations with a convicted

criminal.
Hyphephilia Touching or rubbing a human or non human

object is essential for achieving sexual arousal.
Hypoxphilia The same as asphyxiophilia.
Infantilism Dressing as an infant and acting the role

of a child under two years old is sexually arousing. This can including some
or
all body hair and the hiring of a nurse or nanny to take care of you.
Kleptophilia Similar to kleptomania, kleptophilia

results in sexual arousal from stealing not just thrill seeking.
Klismaphilia Getting an enema is sexually arousing. More

liquid is associated with greater pleasure.
Mixophilia The person likes to watch their partner or

themselves engage in sexual activity. Usually this means watching themselves
in
a mirror.
Morphophilia Peculiar body shapes and sizes are sexually

arousing such as heavy, short, dwarfism, etc.
Mysophilia The person is sexually aroused by dirt,

mud, or filth.
Narratophilia Telling dirty stories is sexually

arousing.
Olfactophilia The person is sexually aroused by body

smells. Usually inserting finger anus, vagina, etc. and smelling it during
sex.
Pictohilia Watching X-rated films is sexually

arousing.
Raptophilia Same as biastophilia.
Scoptophilia Same as mixophilia.
Somnophilia The person can only maintain sexual arousal

while having sex with someone who is sleeping. If the person wakes up they
loose
interest.
Stigmatophilia Body piercing and tattooing but not ear

piercing is sexually arousing.
Symphorphilia Natural disasters are sexually arousing.
Telephonicophilia Talking dirty on the phone or being talked

to lewdly.
Urophilia Being urinated on or urinating on someone.

Golden showers
Zoophilia The person wants to be treated like an

animal wearing a collar and even eating out of an animals dish. This is
different from bestiality in which the person wants to have sex with an
animal.
BDSM TERMS & DEFINITIONS
AGE PLAY Role-playing the persona of someone

substantially younger (or sometimes older) than your actual
age.
BONDAGE Physical materials applied to a

submissive or slave to restrain their ability to move and/or to otherwise
restrict them. Also, the act of placing the submissive or slave in such
materials.
BOTTOM A slang term for a submissive and/or

masochist. Many people use the word “bottom” to mean specifically
someone who
enjoys being given various sensations, as opposed to a
“submissive”, who enjoys
being controlled.
BOTTOM

SPACE
The psychological “head space” or

attitude of being submissive.
BOY A submissive (often, but not always,

male) who relates to their dominant in a child-to parent mode. More common
among
gay men and lesbians.
BRAT A submissive who enjoys rebelling in

a childlike way against their dominant. Brats are fairly common in the
spanking
scene.
CONSENSUAL An activity done with the consent of

adults competent to give that consent. One of the central features of SM
play..
COUNTING GAMES Rituals engaged in during whipping,

flogging, spanking , or during other forms of flagellation, in which the
submissive (or slave) is required to keep count f the number of strokes
delivered, often thanking the Master after each one and asking for more.
Example: “Thats five, Sir. Thank you Sir, Sir, please may I have
another,
Sir?”
DADDY A dominant (usally, but not always,

male) who has a submissive “boy” and who relates to that submissive
in a
parent/child mode. More common among gay men and lesbians, but gaining
currency
among heterosexuals and bisexuals as well.
DISCIPLINE Training by a Master in how they

wish their submissive or slave to behave. Also, the punishment and correction
administered by the Master when the submissive fails to act in the proper
manner.
DOMINANT One who enjoys assuming control. One

who decidees what happens and when. A dominant may or may not be
sadistic.
FLAGELLATION The general act of one person

striking another, usually in an erotic context. Includes spanking, paddling,
flogging and whipping.
FLOGGER A multi-tailed whip in which the

tails are long, flat strips of leather or a similarly flexible
material.
HUMILIATION Activities which

cause the submissive to feel shame, embarrassment, or degradation. Varies
widely
from person to person. Possibly psychologically explosive..
MASTER A term for a male dominant. Often

used as a term of address, such as “Master Tom”. It is often
considered somewhat
rude to address a man by this term without being first given permission to do
so.
MASTER-slave
RELATIONSHIP
An ongoing SM relationship in which

the slave is submissive to a male dominant.
MONDAY MORNING
REBOUND SYNDROME
Feelings of remorse, disgust, fear,

and so forth that sometimes emerge hours or days after a person willingly,
and
often lustily, takes part in SM play.
MUMMIFICATION Immobilizing bondage, usally done by

wrapping the submissive in many coils of materials such as plastic wrap, or
by
placing the submissive in a body bag designed for this
purpose.
NOVICE A person just beginning to learn

about and explore SM. Often treated with special kindness and attention by
the
more experienced members of the community or by the MASTER.
SADIST As loosely defined with the SM

Community, a person who specifically enjoys administering pain. A person may
be
dominant without being sadistic. It’s also possible to be sadistic without
being
dominant.
SADOMASOCHISM A rather vague term referring

generally to fantasies and experiences regarding the introduction of
domination,
submission, bondage, sadism, masochism, humiliation, and related activities
into
erotic play.
SAFEWORD A specific word or other signal

used, by prior agreement, to indicate that things are “really”
becoming too
intense for the person. Usally used by the submissive or slave, but may also
be
used by the dominant. “Safeword” itself is sometimes used at SM
parties to
signal a desire for outside intervention.
SLAVE A person who has an on-going,

structured relationship with a dominant or Master. One who assumes the
submissive role, often in a highly developed and committed way to a
particular
person. Cling someone “my slave” generally indicates a relatively
sophisticated,
ongoing relationship between the two of you.
SUBMISSIVE One who yields control. One who

obeys orders adn may permit themselves to be bound if doing so pleases their
dominant or Master.xt
TOP’S DISEASE An unwarranted attitude of

superiority taken by a domiant. Believing that bottoms are somehow inferior
and
treating them so in either obvious or subtle ways. Usually a sign of
insecurity
or ignorance. Dominants who suffer from Top’s Disease often (surprise,
surprise)
complain about how hard it is to find people willing to play with them. a
mirror
image of this syndrome is called Bottom’s Disease.
TWO SQUEEZES A “squeeze signal” between players

used to non-verbally signal that, “I’m all right.”
WORSHIP To adore the personage of the

dominant. Often combined with performing some service to the dominant’s body
such as massaging, kissing, or licking their feet or boots, massaging their
body, bathing them. Explicitly sexual activity, such as performing oral sex
on
the dominant, may or may not be a part of such play.
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